What Nobody Tells You

What if finding your voice isn't really about becoming a better singer—but about becoming more fully yourself?


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In this episode of What Nobody Tells You, James Ferrigno speaks with singer, songwriter, spiritual leader, and vocal teacher Polyanna Bush about the surprising relationship between singing, healing, spirituality, grief, trauma, authenticity, and self-expression.

Polyanna has spent decades helping people discover and open their voices, including people who believed they couldn't sing or were afraid to use their voices at all.

She explains why she believes everyone has a voice, why so many people become afraid to sing, and how messages we receive as children can affect our willingness to express ourselves later in life.

Polyanna also shares the deeply personal story behind her song "Hush Now," which grew out of the death of her father when she was six years old and her family's inability to openly grieve together. Years later, creating the song gave Polyanna and her mother an opportunity to grieve together for the first time.

The conversation explores circle singing, spontaneous music, and Polyanna's work with women recovering from addiction and abusive relationships. She describes how she used singing, movement, and songwriting to help people connect with their emotions and discover a greater sense of authenticity and belonging.

The conversation also moves into the spiritual dimension of music. Polyanna describes experiencing singing as a direct connection to something sacred from the time she was a young child, and explains why she sees music as a powerful way to reconnect with ourselves and others.

At the heart of the conversation is a simple but powerful idea:

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by guests on What Nobody Tells You are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or this podcast. This episode includes discussion of spirituality, emotional healing, trauma, grief, addiction recovery, relationships, and the potential benefits of singing and music. These discussions are presented for informational, educational, and exploratory purposes and are not intended to constitute medical, psychological, psychiatric, addiction-treatment, or other professional advice. Individual experiences with music, singing, spirituality, and emotional healing vary. Please consult an appropriately qualified professional for personal medical, mental-health, or addiction-related concerns.

00:00 — Introducing Polyanna Bush

00:25 — Growing up surrounded by music

01:22 — Discovering a spiritual connection to singing at age five

03:00 — Perfectionism and the pressure to measure up

03:51 — Being told she didn't have a "solo type voice"

05:18 — The teenager whose message changed how Polyanna saw her music

06:37 — Moving beyond perfection

07:44 — The story behind "Hush Now"

08:34 — Losing her father at six years old

09:34 — What happened when the family didn't grieve together

10:07 — Rewriting the story through song

11:27 — Giving people permission to talk about death

13:29 — Music as a way of processing emotion

15:17 — "Say It Now"

17:13 — Music as a spiritual practice

19:05 — Singing, expansion, bliss and direct knowing

20:42 — Music as a lifelong connection

21:25 — What is Song Medicine?

22:53 — What is circle singing?

25:10 — Singing and community

26:41 — The power of spontaneous music

28:24 — Does everyone have a voice?

28:45 — Why are people afraid to sing?

30:11 — How childhood messages affect our voices

31:38 — The myth that you either can or can't sing

32:31 — Can people learn to sing in tune?

34:34 — What happens when people discover their voice?

35:26 — Your voice is your body

36:38 — Singing and dancing

37:58 — Singing and addiction recovery

38:54 — Turning emotions into spontaneous songs

41:54 — Singing in chaplaincy

43:15 — The vulnerability of singing your own song

45:16 — Why is singing so powerful?

46:34 — Singing and reconnecting with yourself

48:20 — The desire to be seen and expressed

49:37 — What nobody tells you about finding your voice

50:19 — Can everyone learn to sing?

51:27 — Singing doesn't have to be about fame or money

52:08 — The relationship between singing and healing

54:02 — The emotional and spiritual experience of singing

55:14 — Pollyanna's Vocal Lab

56:00 — "Hush Now" and *Dying to Be Born*

56:20 — Closing